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It’s Not Your Love But Christ’s As You Stand For Marriage Restoration

A full week of hope for your marriage — the devotional, the prophetic word, and every daily verse, prayer, declaration, and blessing.

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It’s Not Your Love But Christ’s As You Stand For Marriage Restoration

Weekly Devotional

It’s Not Your Love But Christ’s As You Stand For Marriage Restoration

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It’s Not Your Love But Christ’s As You Stand For Marriage Restoration “For it is Christ’s love that fuels our passion and motivates us, because we are absolutely convinced that He has given His life for all of us. This means all died with Him,” - 2 Corinthians 5:14 (TPT) Today, we are looking at the reality that it’s not “your” love alone that will sustain you through the challenges of standing for your marriage restoration. Instead, I need you to know that if you are going to stand successfully, you must tap in and get filled up with the boundless love that comes only from Jesus Christ Himself. This, my friend, is the jet fuel that empowers your stand. 2 Corinthians 5:14 (TPT) reminds us that it is Christ’s love that fuels our passion and motivates us. This verse holds a profound truth that can transform your perspective on standing for your marriage. It is easy to fall into the trap of relying solely on your own love, which can falter and wane amidst difficulties. But when you tap into the love of Christ dwelling within you, you can access an unending power of love, grace and strength. Often, we may find ourselves saying, “I can’t love my spouse anymore because of all the hurt and issues.” While this is understandable, it is crucial to recognize that you are not being asked to create this love in your own strength. Instead, you are called to love your spouse in the strength of Jesus. Then you will actually have His love for your spouse and not just your own. Yes, it is true that at times, our love can run dry, especially in the face of rejection. But Christ’s love is so much different; it is boundless, unwavering and unfathomable. Even when He was being rejected and mocked, He stayed true. His love showed extreme persistence and it is this type of love that will move you to extraordinary lengths and empower you to stand firm when your own capacity falls short. Please ask yourself this honest question: have you been feeling empty and struggling to stand for restoration? Perhaps it is because you have been trying to rely on your love alone. Our human love can indeed reach its limits, leaving us drained and oftentimes discouraged. However, when you allow yourself to be filled with Christ’s love, you tap into a supernatural source of strength that truly has no end. I love how The Message translation writes this verse. 2 Corinthians 5:14 in The Message says, “Christ’s love has moved me to such extremes. His love has the first and last word in everything we do.” What a powerful way to describe it! This means that Jesus’ love has the power to live in you and cause you to act in ways that others would call extreme. Sound familiar? So, do you need an extreme move of God? We will start by encountering Jesus’ extreme love for your spouse. I also love how this verse says that His love is the first and last word on why you are standing for marriage restoration. So, how do you access and walk in Christ’s love? It begins with a surrender of your heart and a recognition of your need for His love to flow through you. It is a confession that you are only operating out of your own love and not the supernatural love that Jesus has for your spouse. If you need this to increase in your life, start by spending time in prayer, not just asking God to restore your marriage but by asking God to fill you up with His love, grace and compassion that He has for your spouse. Just watch the transformation that will take place! So, as you begin to immerse yourself in Christ’s love, get ready for it to become a new anchor of your stand. It is going to provide you with the endurance and resilience needed to persevere through this stormy season of standing for restoration. If your love starts to run dry, do not panic; just remember that Jesus’ love remains constant and will sustain you through every trial. Remember that it is not your love but Christ’s love that will empower you to persevere. Today, rest in the assurance that Jesus’ love has the first and last word in everything you do, including your stand for the restoration of your marriage.

I Hear the Lord Saying
 I Never Asked You To Love Them In Your Own Strength

Prophetic Word

I Never Asked You To Love Them In Your Own Strength

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I Never Asked You To Love Them In Your Own Strength I hear the Lord saying over you today, “My child, you have been carrying a weight I never handed you. I did not ask you to love your spouse in your own strength. I asked you to let My love in you love them. When you ran out of your love, you thought the stand was over. It was not. It was just the moment I get to be the source.” “Stop apologizing to Me for the days you had nothing left. Those days are the whole point. My love was designed to take over exactly where yours ends. I am not asking you to feel the impossible; I am asking you to be a vessel. Let Me love your spouse through you. Watch what My love does that yours never could.” “The love that is going to walk your spouse home is not the love you had on your wedding day. It is bigger than that. It is Mine — poured into you, filling every empty place, moving you to extremes, standing when everything else has quit. Today, receive that love. Let it fuel this last stretch. Your marriage is being restored by a love that never runs out.”

This Week, Day by Day

Your Daily Stand

MondaySeptember 28+

Daily Verse

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2 CORINTHIANS 5:14 (TPT) FOR IT IS CHRIST'S LOVE THAT FUELS OUR PASSION AND MOTIVATES US, BECAUSE WE ARE ABSOLUTELY CONVINCED THAT HE HAS GIVEN HIS LIFE FOR ALL OF US. THIS MEANS ALL DIED WITH HIM.

Daily Prayer

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HEAVENLY FATHER, THANK YOU THAT IT IS CHRIST'S LOVE -NOT MINE THAT FUELS MY PASSION FOR THE RESTORATION OF MY MARRIAGE. FILL ME WITH JESUS' LOVE FOR MY SPOUSE TODAY AND LET THAT LOVE BE THE FIRST AND LAST WORD OVER MY STAND. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT IT IS CHRIST'S LOVE THAT FUELS MY PASSION AND MOTIVATES ME, NOT MY OWN. TODAY JESUS' LOVE IN ME IS BEING THE FIRST AND LAST WORD OVER MY STAND FOR THE RESTORATION OF MY MARRIAGE.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT CHRIST'S LOVE IS FUELING THEIR HEART AND MOTIVATING THEM FROM THE INSIDE OUT. I BLESS THE EXTREME LOVE OF JESUS TO MOVE THEM TO EXTREME PLACES HOME. STARTING WITH Standing app

TuesdaySeptember 29+

Daily Verse

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1 JOHN 4:19 (NIV) WE LOVE BECAUSE HE FIRST LOVED US.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, THANK YOU THAT I LOVE BECAUSE YOU FIRST LOVED ME. POUR YOUR LOVE THROUGH ME OVER MY SPOUSE TODAY SO THAT EVERY DROP OF LOVE I HAND THEM IS LOVE YOU GAVE ME FIRST. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT I LOVE MY SPOUSE BECAUSE GOD FIRST LOVED ME. TODAY I AM NOT THE SOURCE OF THE LOVE IN THIS MARRIAGE HE IS, AND HIS LOVE IN ME IS STRONGER THAN EVERY EMPTY DAY I HAVE HAD.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THEY ARE LOVED BECAUSE GOD FIRST LOVED THEM. I BLESS THE POURING OF GOD'S LOVE OVER THEIR LIFE TO LEAD THEM HOME TO ME AND OUR RESTORED COVENANT. Standing app

WednesdaySeptember 30+

Daily Verse

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GALATIANS 2:20 (NIV) I HAVE BEEN CRUCIFIED WITH CHRIST AND I NO LONGER LIVE, BUT CHRIST LIVES IN ME. THE LIFE I NOW LIVE IN THE BODY, I LIVE BY FAITH IN THE SON OF GOD, WHO LOVED ME AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR ME.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, THANK YOU THAT I HAVE BEEN CRUCIFIED WITH CHRIST AND CHRIST LIVES IN ME. LET IT BE CHRIST IN ME WHO LOVES MY SPOUSE TODAY WHEN I HAVE NOTHING LEFT, AND LET HIS LOVE DO WHAT MINE NEVER COULD. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN. '7

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT I HAVE BEEN CRUCIFIED WITH CHRIST AND I NO LONGER LIVE, BUT CHRIST LIVES IN ME. TODAY IT IS NOT MY LOVE STANDING FOR MY MARRIAGE IT IS CHRIST'S LOVE IN ME THAT NEVER RUNS OUT.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THEY ARE LOVED BECAUSE GOD FIRST LOVED THEM. I BLESS THE POURING OF GOD'S LOVE OVER THEIR LIFE TO LEAD THEM HOME TO ME AND OUR RESTORED COVENANT. Standing app

ThursdayOctober 1+

Daily Verse

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ROMANS 5:5 (NIV) AND HOPE DOES NOT PUT US TO SHAME, BECAUSE GOD'S LOVE HAS BEEN POURED OUT INTO OUR HEARTS THROUGH THE HOLY SPIRIT, WHO HAS BEEN GIVEN TO US.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, THANK YOU THAT HOPE DOES NOT PUT ME TO SHAME BECAUSE YOUR LOVE HAS BEEN POURED INTO MY HEART THROUGH THE HOLY SPIRIT. PROTECT THE HOPE IN MY CHEST TODAY AND USE EVERY DROP OF LOVE I STILL HOLD FOR MY SPOUSE TO BRING THEM HOME. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT HOPE DOES NOT PUT ME TO SHAME BECAUSE GOD'S LOVE HAS BEEN POURED OUT INTO MY HEART THROUGH THE HOLY SPIRIT. TODAY EVERY DROP OF LOVE I STILL CARRY FOR MY SPOUSE IS PROOF HE IS STILL POURING.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THEY ARE LOVED BECAUSE GOD FIRST LOVED THEM. I BLESS THE POURING OF GOD'S LOVE OVER THEIR LIFE TO LEAD THEM HOME TO ME AND OUR RESTORED COVENANT. Standing app

FridayOctober 2+

Daily Verse

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EPHESIANS 3:17-19 (NIV) AND I PRAY THAT YOU, BEING ROOTED AND ESTABLISHED IN LOVE, MAY HAVE POWER, TOGETHER WITH ALL THE LORD'S HOLY PEOPLE, TO GRASP HOW WIDE AND LONG AND HIGH AND DEEP IS THE LOVE OF CHRIST, AND TO KNOW THIS LOVE THAT SURPASSES KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU MAY BE FILLED TO THE MEASURE OF ALL THE FULLNESS OF GOD.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, ROOT ME AND ESTABLISH ME IN THE LOVE OF CHRIST TODAY. GIVE ME POWER TO GRASP HOW WIDE AND LONG AND HIGH AND DEEP YOUR LOVE IS, AND FILL ME TO THE MEASURE OF ALL YOUR FULLNESS AS I STAND FOR THE RESTORATION OF MY MARRIAGE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN. 27

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT I AM ROOTED AND ESTABLISHED IN THE LOVE OF CHRIST A LOVE THAT IS WIDER AND LONGER AND HIGHER AND DEEPER THAN EVERY WALL BETWEEN US. TODAY GOD IS FILLING ME TO THE MEASURE OF ALL THE FULLNESS OF HIM.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT THEY WILL GRASP THE WIDTH AND LENGTH AND HEIGHT AND DEPTH OF THE LOVE OF CHRIST. I BLESS THAT GRASP TO OVERWHELM EVERY EXCUSE AND WALK THEM HOME INTO OUR COVENANT. Standing app

SaturdayOctober 3+

Daily Verse

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1 CORINTHIANS 13:8 (NIV) LOVE NEVER FAILS. BUT WHERE THERE ARE PROPHECIES, THEY WILL CEASE; WHERE THERE ARE TONGUES, THEY WILL BE STILLED; WHERE THERE IS KNOWLEDGE, IT WILL PASS AWAY.

Daily Prayer

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FATHER, THANK YOU THAT LOVE NEVER FAILS. SILENCE EVERY VOICE TELLING ME MY STAND HAS ALREADY FAILED, BECAUSE THE LOVE YOU HAVE SET OVER MY MARRIAGE CANNOT LOSE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN. 7

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT LOVE NEVER FAILS, AND THE LOVE GOD HAS SET OVER MY MARRIAGE CANNOT FAIL EITHER. TODAY MY STAND IS STANDING ON A PROMISE THAT HAS NEVER LOST.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT LOVE NEVER FAILS OVER THEM, AND THE LOVE GOD HAS SET ON THEIR LIFE IS GOING TO BRING THEM HOME. I BLESS EVERY VOICE THAT TOLD THEM THE MARRIAGE FAILED TO BE SILENCED BY THE PROMISE THAT LOVE DOES NOT. Standing app

SundaySeptember 27+

Daily Verse

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PHILIPPIANS 4:19 (NIV) AND MY GOD WILL MEET ALL YOUR NEEDS ACCORDING TO THE RICHES OF HIS GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS.

Daily Prayer

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7 FATHER, THANK YOU THAT YOU WILL MEET ALL MY NEEDS ACCORDING TO THE RICHES OF YOUR GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS. MEET EVERY NEED IN MY LIFE AND MY MARRIAGE FROM YOUR OWN LIMITLESS RICHES TODAY. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.

Declaration

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I DECLARE THAT MY GOD WILL MEET ALL MY NEEDS ACCORDING TO THE RICHES OF HIS GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS. TODAY GOD IS FULLY SUPPLYING EVERY NEED IN MY LIFE AND MY MARRIAGE FROM HIS OWN LIMITLESS RICHES.

Spousal Blessing

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I BLESS MY SPOUSE TODAY AND I DECLARE THAT GOD WILL MEET EVERY ONE OF THEIR NEEDS ACCORDING TO THE RICHES OF HIS GLORY IN CHRIST JESUS. I BLESS THAT SUPPLY TO INCLUDE THE HEALING AND RESTORATION OF OUR MARRIAGE.

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